Houston woman’s journey from financial hardship to independence
At her lowest point, a friend encouraged her to contact The Women’s Resource, a Houston nonprofit that helps women and girls achieve financial independence. The organization offers free programs, classes and coaching on career development, budgeting, savings and financial planning.
Two years ago, Lani Gahiji faced a dark period after her business failed, leaving her broke and struggling to afford essentials like rent, food and clothing.
Along with financial hardship came a deep sense of shame.
“I was a high achiever. I went to grad school,” Lani said. “I felt shame because I’m used to taking care of myself.”
She faced eviction notices regularly and felt isolated, unsure how to escape her situation.
At her lowest point, a friend encouraged her to contact The Women’s Resource, a Houston nonprofit that helps women and girls achieve financial independence. The organization offers free programs, classes and coaching on career development, budgeting, savings and financial planning.
“I knew I couldn’t do it by myself anymore,” Lani said about reaching out for help.
Her first step was calling a financial coach at The Women’s Resource. The guidance was simple but life changing.
“She said, ‘Utilize your network, call people, ask who is hiring,’” Lani recalled. “That’s how I ended up getting the job I have now. I work with someone I went to grad school with.”
Lani’s journey included many struggles. She often felt uncertain about her next step, even breaking down outside a food pantry.
“I don’t know where I’m going next,” she said. But after sending her resume, she got a call back. “I have hope after that because someone believes in me,” she said emotionally. “Telling me other people in my same position—[I] felt like finally, God sees me.”
Today, Lani’s life has turned around. She is debt-free, has a savings account, a new car and a promotion at work.
“I’m about to go on vacation,” she said.
Reflecting on her transformation, Lani encouraged others facing hardship.
“Never give up. Find a community where people understand you,” she said. “They may not be able to get you out of your situation, but suffering through it alone is the worst.”
The support from The Women’s Resource went beyond finances.
“They helped me heal my heart and mind,” Lani explained. “Shifting my mindset to know I’m not going to be in this situation forever—that keeps me going today.”
Lani hopes to pay it forward by coaching other Houston women to overcome financial struggles, just as she did.
The Women’s Resource continues to offer free programs and classes for women and girls, including high school students.
They will host their annual fundraising gala on Nov. 5, with Daniella Guzman as master of ceremonies.
For more information on the event and services, visit The Women’s Resource website here.
